每个缺点后面都带有一个相对的优点，只要你愿意去找，就一定找得到。
Behind every shortcoming there is always a opposite quality, is only when you are willing to find it, you'll get it.
有个年轻人托媒人婆介绍女孩，这天，媒人兴冲冲地告诉那个年轻人，已经找到一个非常好的女孩。没想到当媒人说出那女孩是谁时，他整个脸跨了下来。
“你干嘛那我开玩笑？”他生气的问道。
“我哪里开玩笑！”媒人说：“我是认真的，这么好的女孩。她有什么地方你不中意的？”
“不中意？她可是个瞎子！”
“你认为这是缺点吗？在我看来，这是个优点。你可以自由的做任何事情。”
“但她还是个哑巴。”
“对于女人来说，这也是很难得的，你不会听到她骂你的话。”
“她也是个聋子啊！”
“这难道不好吗？你可以尽情地骂她，而她却不回嘴。”
“她还是个跛子呢！”
“这也是缺点吗？你可以到处去追别的女人，而她不可能追到你。”
“她还是个驼背！”
“这你也太挑剔了！”媒人叫道：“你难道就不能容忍她一点小缺点吗？”
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每个人的缺点之后往往都带有一个相对的优点，这是真的。
“动作很慢”反过来看，就是“慢条斯理”；
“个性很急”反过来看，就是“积极进取”；
“性情固执”反过来看，就是“意志坚定”；
“口无遮拦”反过来看，就是“纯真直率”。
Once, a young man entrusted a matchmaker to find a girl for him. One day, the matchmaker told the young man with excitment that she found the perfect girl. But when the matchmaker told him who was the girl, his face turned green.
"Why are u joking with me?" The young man asked angrily.
"What do you mean joking?" The matchmaker answered :"I'm serious. This is a perfect girl, is there anything about her u don't like?
"What i don't like? She's blind!"
"You think this is a defect? From my view I think this is rather good. You can do anything u like."
"But she's a dumb."
"For a woman, this is also very good, you won't have to hear her scold you."
"She's also deaf!"
"Isn't this good too? You can scold her as u wish and she wont refute!"
"She is a cripple too!"
"This is also a defect? You can go after any other girls and she can't go after u."
"But she is also a hunch-back!"
"You're too choosy!" The matchmaker said :"Can't you just tolerate her little weakness?"
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Behind everyone's weakness, there's always an opposite quality, this is true.
"Slow action" on the other hand, it means "unhurried"
"Being impatient" on the other hand, it means "being active, vigorous"
"Behaving stubborn" on the other hand, it means "having a strong will"
"Talk without thinking" on the other hand, it means "being genuine"
这故事是从《一笑天下，无难事》摘下的。
This story is taken from a book I bought.
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